The Silent Victims of the Troubled Economy
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My husband and I recently adopted a yellow lab puppy from a shelter in our state. Rather than purchase a dog from a breeder we knew that it was necessary for us to adopt. We searched many different area shelters in search for our newest family member. We looked outside our community at many different shelters. Shelter after shelter was full of wonderful pets that had lost their homes due to the rough economy. There were so many cats in most shelters, that they weren’t accepting any more. My husband and I currently have three cats who were all rescues. To see all of these lovable animals in a shelter and not a loving home broke our hearts.
I also made sure to look in economically depressed areas that had been hit hard due to the recession. I found that these shelters were more eager to adopt out animals to loving homes. With the influx of animals and financial donations to shelters down, they are having a difficult time accommodating the silent victims of this recession.
I found that there were some very nice perks to adopting rather than buying from a breeder. I searched far and wide for our new puppy. We actually traveled almost 200 miles roundtrip to get him. While this does not sound fiscally responsible, let me start by saying that my husband and I actually spent less in gas and food than we would have spent at a breeder. Another plus to adopting a pet is that the shelters most often, have kept up with vaccination and some even spay or neuter at no cost to you.
We love our little puppy. So if you are looking to bring a new pet into your family, please try a shelter first. Pets are truly the silent victims of this recession.
Inexpensive Spring Break Fun

Tis the season for Spring Break for many students out there. While thoughts of Spring break usually gravitate towards fun vacations in sunny warm destinations, many are cutting back this year due to the economy. However, just because funds may restrict big travel plans for this upcoming Spring Break, fun is still out there to be had for all ages.
I grew up in a household, where my parents always seemed to struggle with financial obligations. I spent many Spring Breaks at home with my younger sister, while our friends were jetting off to islands and Disney World with their parents. While our parents could not afford such elaborate vacations for my sister and I, my mother always went out of her way to made sure we had a great time. We spent most spring breaks hosting sleepovers, having movie marathons, and playing outside.
As my sister and I got older, my mom would take us on day trips into Chicago for the day. While this may sound really expensive, it was not. In my family, it was understood that we walked, no cabs for us. We would be so excited to go, it did not matter how far we wold have to walk. At one time, the museums had free days that we’d go to. Mom would pack a lunch for us and we would take the train into the city. The whole day would maybe cost us $40. We always had a blast.
My mother had another ingenious idea, to take a car trip to see our cousins and family in Nebraska. Every Spring Break for almost 10 years my mom would pile my sister and I into the car and down I80 we would go. We would stay with family to minimize costs. My sister and I were lucky to have cousins close in age. We would play for a week strait, while my mom had time to visit with family as well.
I found that my most favorite Spring Breaks were the low key ones. One year when my sister and I were in high school she decided that we would be allowed to re-do our bedrooms over the break, after all paint is cheap. We each helped work in each other’s rooms. We had so much fun. It was a wonderful treat.
So, keep in mind, Spring Break does not have to be outrageously expensive. Just remember to keep it loose and fun. Find fun things that you can do cheaply and enjoy your time off!
I am not a Degenerate!

It comes as no surprise that times are hard, and seem to be getting harder. Many Americans are having to decide what bills they can afford to pay. While budgeting and careful planning may help, sometimes there is just a shortage of available funds to pay the monthlies. As, the cost of living seems to continue to rise, the dollar seems to be stretched further than ever.
When you have missed a payment or are late on a payment these days, creditors are quick to let you know it. While you are clearly do owe them, do not allow yourself to be tormented and harassed by creditors. You have rights and there are laws for your protection from harassing creditors.
Unfortunately, I have had to start making tough choices recently. I just do not have enough money to pay everything on time. I like many Americans am doing the very best that I can.
I was prompted to write this post by an event that happened this week. My husband and I live in a very nice community, which we usually do not have a problem with. Last week, I received a call from our town’s water department. My check had been returned. I was so embarrassed, it had merely been an accounting error on our side. I returned the call to the water department to let them know that I would fix this mess right away. In the same phone call, they said that they would not take a check from my household anymore, due to my irresponsibility. Instead of arguing with the woman on the phone, I told her I would drop off the payment at the end of the day.
Two days went by since I had re-paid my water bill. I thought all was fine, until I got a call from the water department. The woman left a message on my phone at 8 am. in the morning. Her message that was left on my phone was incredibly rude and demeaning. Apparently I had not paid the bill correctly, which was a simple miscommunication. In the message she went on to demean my character and my husband’s character. I was shocked at the brazenness of her call and I was angry.
Later that afternoon, I went into the water department to pay my bill and set the woman who had made the call strait. I told her that I am not a bad person due to an accounting error. Further more, I asked her if she treated everyone who had issues with their bills in this manner. I reminded her that we are in the grips of a very serious recession and that a little compassion for people’s struggles might be in order. The woman did not seem to even register what I had said, and her rude service continued through out my business there. As a bill payer/ customer, you do have rights and you should be heard.
I was utterly shocked by her rudeness. There was absolutely no call for it. My husband was appalled at the treatment I had received as well. He jokingly said, that I should tell them that I was going to dig a well, and that they could keep their city wanter. This was a tricky situation, where I as the customer was not heard. Because it is a city service, I just have to deal with her behavior. I told my husband that the whole situation reminds me of a Simpsons episode where, Homer insults the local garbage men and does not have pick up service for months, causing his rubbish to pile up in his yard.
While I was clearly in the wrong for my accounting error, I still deserver to be treated with dignity and respect.
Top 10 Ways to Redecorate A Room Spending Next to Nothing

During this economic crisis many are learning that their home really is their castle. People are spending more time at home due to the economic issues. People are once again returning to those dining rooms and living rooms that were neglected by eating out and going out for entertainment.
Spending more time at home, sometimes gives people the “itch” to redecorate. Well, in these difficult times, it is not feasible to go on a spending spree to redo a room in your house. However, there are ways to spruce up a room and still spend very little. If you must buy items to redo your room, try the thrift store, garage sales and Ikea. So without further ado, here are my top ten ways for redoing a room on a tight budget:
A Can of Paint
This is my favorite way to redo a room. I love changing the color in a room. When you paint a room it becomes your special space. It’s like leaving a mark saying that you were here. Paint does not have to be expensive. I usually look in the returns section of the paint store. You can get really nice colors at a fraction of what you would normally pay. The best thing about paint is, if you don’t like it, paint it another color!
A New Rug
Carpeting a whole room is really pricey. If you have horribly stained carpet and you cannot afford to replace it, try buying an area rug. Area rugs do not have to be pricey. Most retailers like Target and Walmart sell them. You do not need an area rug that costs thousands of dollars. You can also check on line for a rug as well. I would also suggest your local thrift store. In many cases the cost of the rug and a shampoo is cheaper than buying one new. Believe it or not, an area rug can change the whole feel of a room.
Re-arrange Your Furniture
I know this sounds silly, but it can totally change your room. I constantly try this trick. It drives my husband crazy, but it allows me to show off the room and furniture in different ways. I can breath some life into an old boring room. Just be careful when moving furniture around to not hurt yourself. Also, if you have wood floors make sure not to drag furniture, as to not scratch the floor.
Switch Out Art Work
This is a great trick to give an old piece a new life. If you are redoing your room and there is a print that is hanging in another room, try hanging it in your new room. You can bring in new colors and patterns through artwork. If you don’t have any artwork, try and create something yourself. I know this might intimidate some, but give it a try, you might surprise yourself. If you are not artistically inclined, but you have children, try hanging some of their artwork.
Accessories
This is the easiest part of changing a room. Again, take things from other parts of the house. Picture frames are usually interchangeable. Use a large bowl as a centerpiece on your coffee table, or a breakfast tray. Glass items such as a vase can also bring new color into a room. The thrift store is a great place to shop for accessories. I never buy them new at any stores, they’re too expensive. I would also suggest garage sales.
Change Photos in Picture Frames
I always try to rotate pictures in the photo frames that I have. This is great way to update the look of your room. Wedding pictures, family photos or pictures of friends are great to swap out. Choose different pictures of loved ones and events to showcase.
The Infamous Couch Cover
I am the victim of dated furniture. My husband and I have handed down furniture. It is not the prettiest but, it is comfortable and clean. However, neither of my couches match. A quick way to fix ugly, dated, and dirty furniture is a couch cover. These can be pricey so look for a deal. You can also have your furniture re-fabriced. As always, when it comes to doing these things, they can be pricey, so shop for a deal. Keep in mind it should be much cheaper than replacing the furniture you have.
Throw Pillows
Throw Pillows are a wonderful to update a room. They can be easy to sew if you do not want to buy them. I do not own a sewing machine and am inept at sewing but, I managed to sew some very nice pillows that lasted forever. If the whole sewing thing is not for you, they can be purchased very cheaply. I would recommend Walmart or Ikea. I recently bout 4 pillows at Ikea for under $10. They’re soft and comfortable.
A New Bedspread
This is the best way to redo a bedroom for little or no money. If you have a reversible bedspread, you can switch sides for a while. If you have a duvet, try switching out duvet covers, which is usually inexpensive. Ikea has wonderful duvet sets which usually include the duvet and pillow shams. The thrift store is another wonderful place to buy new bedding. Just make sure to wash it well before using.
Change the Lighting
Properly lighting a room is very important. Lighting of a room either showcase a room or hides it in darkness. Try to move your lamps and lights around to evenly light your room. Try to avoid dark corners. You will be amazed what a difference an extra lamp can make to the appearance of a room. You can purchase lamps inexpensively. If you do choose to buy a lamp second-hand, be careful with the electrical components, the unit may not be up to code.
These few tip can totally change the look of a room. As always, try to make do with what you have. Walk around your house and take stock of what you have, this will help you re-arrange things in your home and give your treasures a new life. Have fun!
Dumpster Diving Is Back
As a child I grew up in a home where we just managed to get by financially. Once a week my mom would pile us kids into the car to go “dumpster diving” in the wealthier neighborhoods in our area. I know this idea sounds repulsive to some, but it really isn’t. We would not go through the garbage bags, but instead keep an eye out for things set next to the rummage bin.
My sister and I used to love “dumpster diving night.” Believe it or not, we actually found some pretty cools stuff over the years, things that were in perfect condition. As I got older, we didn’t do dumpster dive nights anymore. However, I still do keep my eye out when I am driving. Once, I found a perfectly good Radio Flyer wagon in someone’s trash. It was old and a little rusty, but it worked just fine. I use it as a garden cart for when I am out working in my yard.
Recently I have been reading articles that say dumpster diving is back in a big way. This made me chuckle until the other night when I actually saw a guy doing it! I personally don’t care if someone wants to rummage through my trash, believe me all they’d find is coffee grounds and cat food tins. I am not condemning the man that I saw. Way to go for him, now that’s being resourceful.
However, like most things, dumpster diving has become more technologically advanced. Craig’s List has a free category on their website, the new modern dumpster dive. I have been amazed at the things people give away. I have seen beautiful furniture, appliances some working, and some for scrap, clothing. You name it, you’ll find it.
There are a few tricks to this modern dumpster dive. First, you must check often, especially on the weekends. Second, if you see something you want, contact the giver right away. Things can go very quickly on Craig’s List. It is okay to ask the giver a few questions about the item before you commit to taking it. This can be a great way to get what you need for free.
While Craig’s List is free, a word of caution, this type of dumpster dive can be dangerous. Most times when someone lists an item, they usually have you pick it up at their home. Please be cautious, take someone with you when you go. We have had two robberies in the area that lured people by using the free category on Craig’s List. The people showed up to pick up the items and instead, they were robbed and assaulted. So, please be careful when using Craig’s List. However, in giving this warning, I must say, I have used Craig’s List many times and I have never had any problems.
Resources for Recent Layoffs
540,000 jobs were cut last month, and this month is looking to be worse. It is a scary time to be employed and unemployed right now. Strong stable companies are shedding jobs in an effort to help their bottom line. However, where does that leave the receiver of a pink slip?
Well, if you have recently received a pink slip you are not alone. I came across a statistic the other day that said 70% of Americans know someone who has been effected by the economic downturn or laid off. In looking at that stat, it is amazing to me to see how rampant this really is.
As I was searching the net for information to aid those who have been recently laid off, I came across this article on Mashable.com. They have an article that lists the best 30 websites for those who are jobless right now.
This database of websites is wonderful! It is very rare in the vast universe that is the internet, to find such a detailed and concise list. The database, has sites not only how to find a new job, but how to manage your money until you do.
Ben Parr, the author says,
“But the worst time to panic is when you are laid off and lose your main source of income. We live in a new and powerful era of communication, one where we can find support, gather news, and network without ever leaving our computers.”
I would encourage all to take a quick glance at his database. This is a wonderful resource. I hope that this helps to those of you who have recently recieved that dreaded pink slip
How to Pawn Items

I live on the fringe of a major city, but I am also far enough that I can pickup a few local television stations. My area so far as been relatively insulated from the current recession. However, just east of me has not been so lucky. They have lost jobs at an alarming rate. Entire towns are closing down.
I sometimes choose to watch the local news from that area, because sometimes they cover the town that I live in. While I was watching the newscast last week, I thought to myself, what a different tone the news had taken in that area, within the past six months. Major stories on the last newscast included, where to get food, how to apply for financial assistance and announcements of more layoffs. It was truly sad to see.
I do not delude myself that people are really struggling right now but the real slap in the face came when the news did a story on how to pawn your valuables in order to keep your utilities on or feed your family. The story covered the basics of how to pawn items, and which items were bringing in the most money.
As I watched, the newscaster sifted through family heirlooms and wedding bands. It was heartbreaking to see people have to sell these things in order to survive. However, if I were faced with that situation, I too would sell my precious items to feed my loved ones.
Pawn shops are doing great right now in this economy. If you do end up in a situation where you must pawn your items, to stay afloat please make sure you understand the process. Pawn shops are not necessarily bad places, they are a business like any other.
How to Pawn
When you take an item to a pawn shop, you are essentially renting it with the option to buy it back from the shop owner. In some shops there is the option to come and buy the item back within a certain amount of time. Please be careful when you decide to do this, because in essence you are selling your valuables to another person. You will most likely never see that item again.
My mother learned this lesson all too well in the mid-1980’s after my youngest sister was born. Times were tight and she went and pawned her wedding band, to feed our growing family. She was left without any other choice. She sold the ring to a pawn shop, and she has looked for the ring ever since. She has never seen the ring again. I once asked her if she wish she would have not done that. She replied that of course she wish she still had the ring, but feeding her family was more important.
So, please keep in mind, that you may never be able to find the item that you pawn agin. Make sure that you can live with loosing it. Also do some homework as to the value of what you are pawning is. The most important thing to remember is that you do not have to sell it to the pawn shop once you are there. If you do not want to, then don’t.
The End of the 24 Hour Society?

As President Obama said, last week in his press conference, Americans are loosing jobs at an alarming rate. Stores are closing like crazy. I am amazed to see even bigger chain stores closing in my area.
We have become an around the clock society. So many stores offer 24 hour services, as opposed to 10 years ago. We have come to expect, that certain mega-retailers and drugstores will be open at all hours of the night, just incase we need something.
However, as the jobless rate goes up. and payroll gets harder to cover for many business’ large and small, will we start to see a decline in the 24 hour store? When I started to thing about this concept in depth, which I had never really done before. I was amazed at how expensive it must be.
A store that is open for 24 hours, 7 days a week must incur some serious costs. Payroll must be outrageous. If you thing about it, the store must be staffed at all times, usually with more than one person. Almost all 24 hour stores have a manager on duty, at all times. Managers are payed more than regular staff and are therefore more expensive.
Then I thought about,how much the energy costs of keeping your doors open at a 24 hour store must be. Heat, or air conditioning, lights, and water? That kind of usage must really add up quickly. Especially for a mega-retailer such as Walmart.
Taking all of these thoughts into account, I wonder, with the downturn in the economy will the 24 hour store survive? As we all know, retail sales are down sharply for the country. People are not out shopping. Which I would think would certainly effect the over night crowd that frequent 24 hour stores.
I am grateful for the store that stays open for 24 hours in times of sickness or emergency. However, I think that with stores being open constantly are slowly changing our society. We are able to do things like shop whenever we’d like that we were not able to do before now.
So, what does this current depression have in store for the 24 hour shopper? I guess only time will tell. Until then, covet your ability to feed your 2 am. fix for that Heath Bar or be thankful that you can buy junior diapers at 4 am.
What To Do With Your Tax Return?

Tis’ the season of the long awaited tax return for those early filers out there. Those glorious checks that cheerfully find their way to your mailbox, unless you live in California. With dollar signs in the eyes of many, strict budgeting is need and it is needed fast.
In these difficult times, this additional money can really help make a difference in a person’s budget, if they spend it correctly. I have some very dear friends, who I love very much, who will have received about $3000. worth of tax refunds from Uncle Sam this year. As their money is starting to trickle in, so are the unneeded large purchases.
I am not a financial scholar, I have made my mistakes financially. When I see friends of mine making such large frivolous purchases, this makes me start to think about how others will be spending their return as well. Will the whole country be as irresponsible as my dear friends?
I will not be receiving a return this year. I am totally bummed, because I could really use the extra influx of cash, right about now. I am sure that most of the country could use an influx of cash right now as well. Even though I will not be receiving a return this year, I pondered that if I had, what would I do with the money. I do know that large unneeded purchases would not be happening.
How can people like my friends even think about shelling out large amounts of cash at a time like this. I do understand that spending stimulates the economy, but in these shaky times, when jobs are not guaranteed, doesn’t it make sense to not spend but save? I know that there are those out there who will not spend like money is going out of style.
There are those out there that need that money to stay afloat financially. Wether that tax return comes or not, financial responsibilities never stop. I hope that for those who really do need the checks right now, that they use it in a responsible manner.
Austerity and Our New President

Tonight our president came before the press and the American public. Finally some questions about what the stimulus entailed, how it would be put into practice, and how its sucess could be determined.
It was wonderful to see a strong message broadcast to a leary country. Obama ventured to Elkhart Indiana today to see one if the hardest hit towns by this economic recession. I have driven through this area within the past year and I have to say that the scene was deviststing. I was so pleased that our President took the time to go there to see the average American’s plight. Tonight he used these people as an example saying that Washington needed to stop positioning themselves for the next election and work for the people who depend on them.
I watched the entire confernce and a few things stood out to me. First of all the President Obama said,
“As we speak, similar scenes are playing out in cities and towns across the country. Last Monday, more than 1,000 men and women stood in line for 35 firefighter jobs in Miami. Last month, our economy lost 598,000 jobs, which is nearly the equivalent of losing every single job in the state of Maine. And if there’s anyone out there who still doesn’t believe this constitutes a full-blown crisis, I suggest speaking to one of the millions of Americans whose lives have been turned upside down because they don’t know where their next paycheck is coming from.”
I knew the unemployment rate was sky rocking but, it is truly alarming when one looks at the raw data. Large portions of the country have been insulated from what the rest of the country is going through, tonight those people got to see how badly things have become for their fellow Americans.
I also liked how President Obama closed his speech by saying,
“We find ourselves in a rare moment where the citizens of our country and all countries are watching and waiting for us to lead. It is a responsibility that this generation did not ask for, but one that we must accept for the sake of our future and our children’s.”
We as a country are at a history making juncture, it’s sink or swim time. I am optimistic at this point in time, I think that our country will band together and rise again, like we have out of every other depression and recession. This country is not a stranger to hard times, and we have always pulled through. So, lets not break that trend. Let’s help our neighbors where and when we can and stand up as a country to make it through.


